Showing posts with label friend. Show all posts
Showing posts with label friend. Show all posts

Wednesday, April 3, 2013

Stand up to those who we are afraid of.

There are those type of people that torment us and because of that they have the advantage that they can do whatever they want to scare the wits out of us.  The more that we are afraid of that person the more they will maintain their presence of scaring us.  The only way to be not afraid of them is to stand up to them and show courage that we are not afraid of that person.  Then we have the advantage on our side and for that person now have no more reason to scare us and will leave us alone. 

Take the story David and Goliath.  There was the Israelite army against this big huge giant named Goliath.  He was huge compared to the regular human size.  He would traumatize the Israel army for several days saying mocking God and saying how insignificant we were compared to him.  On the third day of this Goliath asked to send out someone that would be willing to fight him.  The leaders discussed on who to send.  David told them that he would stand up to this Goliath.  They were bit afraid to send out a young boy to do an older gentlemen job.  Though sense no one else was willing to do it, David went out the next day to face Goliath.  They gave him armor to defend himself.  David was too young and not fit to wear the armor and so David took off the armor.  He went up to face Goliath and as soon as David got up there, Goliath laughed in saying that they send this young boy to fight him.  David knew what had to be done.  He had a sling with him and was told by the Lord to get a stone to put inside his sling.  David got a stone to put into his sling and swung it around above his head several times and let the stone go.  The stone left the sling and hit Goliath straight in the forehead.  He fell down backwards, dead as a doornail.   David then went up to the giant and sliced off his head and showed the rest of Goliath's army that the giant was indeed dead.  This scared the giants so much that he fled. 
Now had David or the rest of the Israel army, not faced Goliath or ran away from this big bully, Israel would have been in lot of bad stuff.  Instead someone stood up to this bully and faced him with courage and without fear.  This is the way we need to face the people who scare us.  Not to the extreme that we kill them, but to the point that we are not afraid of them. 
In our community, schools, work places, families, etc.  let us stand up to those who bully us and tell them that we are not afraid of them.  Strength in numbers is better than being the only person being tormented. If you know a friend or a family member that is being tormented help them to stop the bully. 
                            We need to stand up to bullys!

Sunday, July 22, 2012

My Grandpa Mercer

This past week I lost a close friend, my grandpa.  He was a great friend to me.  Jennie and I got to visit him every weekday down at the Beehive Homes.  He would do well sometimes and say a few words, tidy up his bead, chair, and blinds and just listen.  It wasn't till close to the last few days of his life did he then stay inside his room and stay in his bed.  The last time I saw him alive was several hours before he left this earth life.  He seemed to trying to go to sleep and every time he moved his feet it caused a bit of pain.  Not till the next morning that I had learned of him passing on into the next life.  I was happy, sad, and a bit angry that he died.  He served his country well by being in the military and being a faithful family member to his family.  I will always remember his wonderful smile that he had especially when we got to visit him.  I will miss him.

Sunday, October 9, 2011

I song I like called Lean on Me.

I really like this song.  It just means that at times we need each other for help.  I'm willing to help you and in return if you can help me when I need help.

Lean on Me.

Sometime in our lives we all have pain
We all have sorrow
But if we are wise we know that there's
Always tomorrow

Lean on me when you're not strong and
I'll be your friend
I'll help you carry on
For it won't be long till I'm gonna need
Somebody to lean on

Please swallow your pride if I have things
You need to borrow
For no one can fill those of your needs
that you won't let show

Just call on me brother when you need a hand
We all need somebody to lean on
I just might have a problem that you'd understand
We all need somebody to lean on

Lean on me when you're not strong
And I'll be your friend
I'll help you carry on
For it won't be long till 'm gonna need
Somebody to lean on

Just call on me brother when you need a hand
We all need somebody to lean on
I just might have a problem that you'd understand
We all need somebody to lean on

If there is a load you have to bear
That you can't carry
I'm right up the road, I'll share your load
if you just call me

Just call me when you need a friend
Just call me when you need a friend.

Sunday, June 26, 2011

To those who have had a close friend die on them.

If you have known someone that has been real close to you as a friend, mentor, buddy, etc.  I hope that this hymn will help you in this difficult time you are facing.

This hymn is called "O My Father"

O my Father, Thou that dwellest in the high and
glorious place, when shall I regain thy presence
and again behold Thy face?  In Thy holy
habitation, did my spirit once reside?  In my
first primeval childhood was I nurtured near Thy side?

For a wise and glorious purpose Thou hast placed me
here on earth And withheld the recollection
of my former friends and birth; yet oft times a
secret something whispered, "You're a stranger here," and I
felt that I had wandered from a more exalted sphere.

I had learned to call thee Father, thru the Spirit
from on high, but, until the key of knowledge
was restored, I knew not why.  In the heaven's are
parents single?  No, the thought makes reason stare!  Truth is
reason; truth eternal tells me I've a mother there.

When I leave this frail existence, When I lay this
mortal by, Father, Mother, may I meet you
in your royal courts on high?  Then, at length, when
I've completed all you sent me forth to do, with your
mutual approbation let me come and dwell with you.

Tuesday, April 26, 2011

My birthday!

Today is my 36th birthday! I am getting closer to 40! WOW!

Thanks for all the wonderful friendships and relationships I have made over the years.  Thanks for the time to cheer me up when I'm down, for being able to text you on your cell, call you up and talk to you for a while, being able to help you in your life, calling me a brother, for your understanding me even when I can be weird at times, understanding my humor and still being my friend even when others have left me for whatever reason. 

I know that I can't talk to all of you in person or on the phone.  So I want to say thanks for the years you have got to know me so far and that you will continue to be my friend and brother for many years to come! 

I know I have been around for this long so I can help those around me to feel better about themselves and if it weren't for me then they could have been on a different path then they are now.  The Lord knows that I am needed still here on Earth to help my fellow brothers and sisters!

Tuesday, March 29, 2011

The movies we watch.

I know this is a hot topic right now and will most likely get several comments on this.  If I lose readers over this, then its their choice.  I just felt that I needed to get this topic out in the open. 

As one movie that is coming out is titled "The Kings Speech".  It was a R movie mostly because of profanity being told about 20 times over and over again.  It won the best movie for the past year at the Oscars.  I have yet to watch it because of the rating.  Now as a result the movie as it is coming out will receive a lesser rating as PG-13 and for that they are taking out the profanity out so they can have a larger audience to watch the movie. 

I have heard two different views of the rating movies deal.  One side is that viewers will only watch the movies based on the rating of the movie: G, PG, PG-13, R and NC-17.  The other side is that viewers will watch a movie based on content of the movie and not give a care of wither its R or PG-13. 

I myself have at one time did see some R movies, but have not seen one since for over 2 1/2 years.  Though I do watch PG-13, PG and G movies.  I know that its up the individual to see what movie that he or she will see.  I know I can not stop any family or friends from watching a movie just because of the content or the rating of the movie.  If they want to watch it, its their choice.  I am not condoning anyone who wishes to watch R movie.  I will still be your loyal friend even if you make that choice to watch it.

Maybe their may come a time when the movies will be so bad that it will be not good to watch any movies at all. 

Please if you do comment keep it clean and in good nature. :)

Monday, March 7, 2011

Update on blog status.

I didn't know who would all accept the names of my co workers that I work with in my posting as characters in Star Wars and that this blog is not to always talk about movies and use the characters as my co workers all the time.  Also to not feel anyone else that I don't work with feel guilty that I didn't include them in the deal or wish that I had chosen them instead of a character to use.  So to ease that I just decide to erase that info of the characters that I used as and decide to put them on a different blog all together.

I did add to the side
* Number of views that have been done
* The favorites of the posts that I have done up to 10 since I started.  Its a random process so I don't know which one will be on that list. 
* I did change the archive list from being monthly shown to weekly shown. 
* I did include a white small envelope down below by the bottom of the posting that you should be able to click on and email someone the posting to another friend if you want. 

Thanks again for always reading my blog.  I know it has helped you in ways that I can't imagine.